Woman as Reflector

loveLove is the fuel of a female, when you don’t give a car fuel, it can’t start. The same thing happens for humans.

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How are you using your LIFE?


HOW AM I USING MY LIFE? This is the greatest question that every individual must ask in order to live a life of purpose. It is obvious that everyone who ever lived or living must give account of his life. Even though humanity has turned away from God, He still creates us with gifts and talents that are intended to be used to fulfill His purposes. Yet since we don’t understand how they are to be used, we take the talents He has given us and use them against ourselves and others.

Some of the wickedest people in the world are wise when it comes to information. They are sharp people; they can be wicked with class. Some people are gifted, but they use their gifts in such a wicked way that their victims don’t know what hit them until it’s all over. Our gifts, which God means for good, can be turned and used for evil purposes.
Some people blame the devil for the results of their actions.

Don’t blame the devil he just takes advantage of your decisions. The devil cannot dominate you or force you to do anything. Instead, he waits for your decisions. When you make a bad one, he will ride it to the end, or just as far as he can and he will try to bring you down with it. Satan is not the culprit. The culprit is your rejection or ignorance of God’s purpose you don’t know God’s purpose for living, and so you abuse your life. Be careful, that abuse can cripple or kill

We must discover God’s purpose for our lives and use our gifts for his glory.

Just a little Pu….sh!

pushI agree with what John C. Maxwell said: “People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care”

Conventionally  people are created and designed to be loved, motivated, cuddle and to be appreciated, that’s the special ingredient which makes life fulfilled.

Due to the complexity of life, at a point one may be discouraged, to which the only option left is suicide, while other may feel just to admit defeat. But no matter how demoralized you may be, it is vital to understand the principle of motivation as a fundamental key for extraordinary living.

Through personal experience I have discovered that, all that people need is just a little push. It could be a little encouragement to keep them moving, It could be a little motivation to stir them up, It could also be a little appreciation to ignite their zeal to do more or a helping hand to make them feel loved.

No wonder Rick Warren said: “When you make other people’s problems your problems, God will take care of yours in turn.”

Life could be so hard-hitting and strenuous! But you can help someone find something that he had lost along the way, something he had once believed so strongly.

Love is the most powerful thing on earth. I have seen what it can do, and it can do staggering things. Sometimes I imagine a world where everyone knows love that is unconditional, knows that someone somewhere needs a little push, what a beautiful world it is. I think is right, that there truly is enough love to go around.  All you have to do is to share, help the weak, and defend the defenseless.

It is high time people know that just a call can save a life; a simple message can erase the pain of many years.

So Tired? Try Him!!

Are you tired of life? Are you tired of failing? Are you tired of running helter-skelter? Are you tired of you relationship or marriage? Yes! It may be true that you are so tired, because you have been trying to do it your own way. Last time you said you can do it even with nobody. Listen up!  Life may seems crazy and even dry sometimes. It may look as if the whole world is crushing on you. You may face a lot of castigation from your cronies and trusted people whom you rely on. Other times rejection and dejection may seem to be the top of your story. You might have thought of leaving home completely or even thought of suicide.

Just try Him and your life will never remain the same……

If you want to know more about Him click this Knowing God personally

Do You Know???

Do you know that you are gifted and also a gift to your generation?

Do you know that is an error not to discover your purpose on earth?

Do you know that the wealthiest place on earth is the cemetery?

Why? Because world changers, billionaires, Musicians, artist, Doctors, lawyers, Professors are buried and rotten there without discovering the wealth and treasures in them?

Do you know that deep inside you is great ability and ideas that only you possess and aside you no one on this planet earth carry?

Do you know that your brain is a machine specifically designed for reception and production of ideas? Do you know that God has designed you to carry others in your vision? Do you know that your life is a chain that many are busy looking up to for impact and direction?

Do you know that you are created and decorated by God to fulfill purpose and to die empty?

Do you know that your success or failure lies in your hands and it has the propensity of affecting others directly or in directly?

Do you know  that the enemy is not happy of your existence?

Do you that one day your breath will cease and you will be no more?

Do you know that the way you gave the news of others death that is how yours will be given too?

Do you know that you are going to give account of your life to God at the end? 

Do you know that ignorance is never an excuse?

Do you know that just knowing all this, is not good enough but applying it?

Be wise and act…

Shake it off……..Move on

What you are about to read changed my perspective generally and left me with lessons that gave birth to this piece (Post). Read it carefully as you examine your life critically.

One day a farmer’s donkey fell down into a well. The animal cried piteously for an hour as the farmer tried to figure out what to do. Finally he decided the animal is old and the well needed to be covered up anyway; it just wasn’t worth it to retrieve the donkey. He invited his entire neighbor to come over and help him, they all grabbed shovel and began to shovel dirt into the well. At first, the donkey realized what was happening and cried horribly. Then, to everyone’s amazement, he quieted down. A few shovel loads later; the farmer finally looked down the well, and was astonished at what he saw. With every shovel of dirt that hit his back, the donkey was doing something amazing. He will shake it off and take a step up. As the farmer’s neighbor continued to shovel dirt on top of the animal, he would shake it off and take a step up. Pretty soon, everyone was amazed as the donkey step up over the edge of the well and trotted off!

Wow! That is amazing!! Well, Hatred and mockery doesn’t mean you are a failure. People most talk about you (shovel dirt on you) other times ridicule and even belittle what comes from you. When that happened just know that life is going to shovel dirt on you, I mean all kind of dirt. The trick to getting out of the well (Mockery, Failure and defeat) is to shake it off and take a step. We can get out of the deepest wells just by not stopping. Never! Never!! Never give up

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10 Benefits of Reading: Why You Should Read Every Day

Lana Winter-Hébert

When was the last time you read a book, or a substantial magazine article? Do your daily reading habits center around tweets, Facebook updates, or the directions on your instant oatmeal packet? If you’re one of countless people who don’t make a habit of reading regularly, you might be missing out: reading has a significant number of benefits, and just a few benefits of reading are listed below.

  1. Mental Stimulation

Studies have shown that staying mentally stimulated can slow the progress of (or possibly even prevent) Alzheimer’s and Dementia, since keeping your brain active and engaged prevents it from losing power. Just like any other muscle in the body, the brain requires exercise to keep it strong and healthy, so the phrase “use it or lose it” is particularly apt when it comes to your mind. Doing puzzles and playing games such as chess have also been found to be helpful with cognitive stimulation.


  1. Stress Reduction

No matter how much stress you have at work, in your personal relationships, or countless other issues faced in daily life, it all just slips away when you lose yourself in a great story. A well-written novel can transport you to other realms, while an engaging article will distract you and keep you in the present moment, letting tensions drain away and allowing you to relax.

  1. Knowledge

Everything you read fills your head with new bits of information, and you never know when it might come in handy. The more knowledge you have, the better-equipped you are to tackle any challenge you’ll ever face.

Additionally, here’s a bit of food for thought: should you ever find yourself in dire circumstances, remember that although you might lose everything else—your job, your possessions, your money, even your health—knowledge can never be taken from you.


  1. Vocabulary Expansion

This goes with the above topic: the more you read, the more words you gain exposure to, and they’ll inevitably make their way into your everyday vocabulary. Being articulate and well-spoken is of great help in any profession, and knowing that you can speak to higher-ups with self-confidence can be an enormous boost to your self-esteem. It could even aid in your career, as those who are well-read, well-spoken, and knowledgeable on a variety of topics tend to get promotions more quickly (and more often) than those with smaller vocabularies and lack of awareness of literature, scientific breakthroughs, and global events.

Reading books is also vital for learning new languages, as non-native speakers gain exposure to words used in context, which will ameliorate their own speaking and writing fluency.

  1. Memory Improvement

When you read a book, you have to remember an assortment of characters, their backgrounds, ambitions, history, and nuances, as well as the various arcs and sub-plots that weave their way through every story. That’s a fair bit to remember, but brains are marvellous things and can remember these things with relative ease. Amazingly enough, every new memory you create forges new synapses (brain pathways)and strengthens existing ones, which assists in short-term memory recall as well as stabilizing moods. How cool is that?


  1. Stronger Analytical Thinking Skills

Have you ever read an amazing mystery novel, and solved the mystery yourself before finishing the book? If so, you were able to put critical and analytical thinking to work by taking note of all the details provided and sorting them out to determine “whodunnit”.

That same ability to analyze details also comes in handy when it comes to critiquing the plot; determining whether it was a well-written piece, if the characters were properly developed, if the storyline ran smoothly, etc. Should you ever have an opportunity to discuss the book with others, you’ll be able to state your opinions clearly, as you’ve taken the time to really consider all the aspects involved.

  1. Improved Focus and Concentration

In our internet-crazed world, attention is drawn in a million different directions at once as we multi-task through every day. In a single 5-minute span, the average person will divide their time between working on a task, checking email, chatting with a couple of people (via gchat, skype, etc.), keeping an eye on twitter, monitoring their smartphone, and interacting with co-workers. This type of ADD-like behaviour causes stress levels to rise, and lowers our productivity.


When you read a book, all of your attention is focused on the story—the rest of the world just falls away, and you can immerse yourself in every fine detail you’re absorbing. Try reading for 15-20 minutes before work (i.e. on your morning commute, if you take public transit), and you’ll be surprised at how much more focused you are once you get to the office.

  1. Better Writing Skills

This goes hand-in-hand with the expansion of your vocabulary: exposure to published, well-written work has a noted effect on one’s own writing, as observing the cadence, fluidity, and writing styles of other authors will invariably influence your own work. In the same way that musicians influence one another, and painters use techniques established by previous masters, so do writers learn how to craft prose by reading the works of others.

  1. Tranquility

In addition to the relaxation that accompanies reading a good book, it’s possible that the subject you read about can bring about immense inner peace and tranquility. Reading spiritual texts can lower blood pressure and bring about an immense sense of calm, while reading self-help books has been shown to help people suffering from certain mood disorders and mild mental illnesses.


  1. Free Entertainment

Though many of us like to buy books so we can annotate them and dog-ear pages for future reference, they can be quite pricey. For low-budget entertainment, you can visit your local library and bask in the glory of the countless tomes available there for free. Libraries have books on every subject imaginable, and since they rotate their stock and constantly get new books, you’ll never run out of reading materials.

If you happen to live in an area that doesn’t have a local library, or if you’re mobility-impaired and can’t get to one easily, most libraries have their books available in PDF or ePub format so you can read them on your e-reader, iPad, or your computer screen. There are also many sources online where you can download free e-books, so go hunting for something new to read!

There’s a reading genre for every literate person on the planet, and whether your tastes lie in classical literature, poetry, fashion magazines, biographies, religious texts, young adult books, self-help guides, street lit, or romance novels, there’s something out there to capture your curiosity and imagination. Step away from your computer for a little while, crack open a book, and replenish your soul for a little while.